In a world where character and confidence often walk hand in hand with appearance, a quiet revolution is underway — and it’s unfolding between fathers and sons, one grooming session at a time. At Totally Male Club Spa & Salon, personal care is no longer just about haircuts or beard trims; it’s becoming a rite of passage, a legacy of discipline, pride, and presence passed from one generation to the next.
This Father’s Day, we spotlight three men who aren’t just raising boys — they’re raising gentlemen.
Mikhail Jackson & Son Elijah — The Legacy of Presence
Mikhail Jackson, a seasoned attorney-at-law, has been a familiar face at Totally Male for over a decade. But for Jackson, grooming isn’t just a matter of hygiene — it’s a form of respect.
“When I step into a courtroom or walk into a boardroom, I know my image speaks before I do. That’s why I don’t compromise on grooming,” he says.
More importantly, Jackson sees these visits as a continuity of memory.
“My father made barber visits a bonding ritual, and I’m doing the same with Elijah. It’s less about the haircut and more about the conversation, the consistency, and showing him that presence matters.”
Omar Newell & Son Leonard-Anthony — The Standard Bearer
Between balancing executive responsibilities at Rerum Trading Ltd and preparing for the political arena as a Central St Mary candidate, Omar Newell doesn’t have time to micromanage every detail of his son’s development. But grooming? That’s non-negotiable.
“Totally Male fills in the gaps for me. My son watches how men carry themselves here — how they walk, talk, sit, and groom. That environment teaches him pride without me saying a word.”
Newell credits the atmosphere of the salon as a powerful extension of mentorship.
“It’s more than a haircut. It’s a place where values are mirrored, and Leonard learns that appearance and integrity are inseparable.”
Wayne Demercado & Son Zaid — The Discipline of Image
As Director of Sun Rock Energy, Wayne Demercado is used to managing high-stakes operations. But one of his most meaningful responsibilities, he says, is shaping his son’s self-awareness.
“A man who respects himself will reflect that in how he presents himself. Grooming isn’t vanity — it’s discipline.”
For Demercado, Totally Male is more than a service — it’s a stage for legacy-building.
“It’s become our thing. It reinforces the value of effort. Zaid’s not just getting his hair cut — he’s learning that excellence is habitual.”
A Quiet Revolution of Care
Gone are the days when grooming was reduced to a rushed chore. These fathers are showing that self-care is a lifelong habit — one that begins early, is modeled daily, and is strengthened in the presence of mentors, whether at home or in the chair next to yours at the barbershop.
Next week, we’ll hear from three more fathers — David Dwyer, Anthony Hutchinson, and Heron Bennett — who are also shaping their sons’ futures, one fresh cut at a time.
